A Powerful Vision for the Future

We believe in the potential for all of us to create the more beautiful world we know is possible, together.

We’re here for you

See the impact we’ve made

Evolve Relating has been in official business for three years, this is our impact so far… much more to come!

1000+ Practitioners Served

Our courses support personal evolution through upgrading the ways we relate to ourselves and others

30+ Courses Completed

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25,000+ Followers Engaged

Combined on Facebook, Instagram and our Newsletter. We do our very best to provide high quality content. Service is essential to us.

20 Facilitators Trained

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Mission

What we stand for

We love to serve, and we serve love.
We believe in a life filled with abundance, joy and beauty. Relationships that lift us up, friendships that stimulate and nourish us, thriving families and communities, meaningful purpose and lots of fun.

In short, what want what you want.

Come walk with us.

Vision

Our Vision

It’s possible to create the future today. It starts now, with every action we take. Your healing and growth matters.

Incredible Relationships

We believe that relationships are pillars of an evolutionary future.

The amount of energy lost through dysfunctional and painful relationships is costing all of us. When we are able to enter into truly thriving relationships, however, that energy is liberated and can be utilised to create so much more.

The Evolving Couple nurtures the seedlings for an evolving future.

Healthy Families

Extend beyond your own lifespan and into the generations to come.

When we feel settled in our romantic needs, there is a natural overflow to create healthy family. Whether this is with our own children, or as extended family through community… the future will be created by the children we raise together.

The Evolving Family nurtures the seedlings for an evolving future.

Synergistic Communities

They say it takes a village to raise a child.

As we create more stability and harmony in ourselves and our personal relationships, we are naturally drawn towards each other. Tribe runs in our veins and together we create more potential to truly thrive.

The Evolving Community tends the garden for the future to flourish.

Empowered Leadership

We are the ones that we have been waiting for.

Nobody else is coming to save us! The future we dream of will be created by us. Leadership, in some form or another, lives inside all of us. Together we take our healing and growth into the world creating ripples of transformation.

The Evolving Leader propagates the wisdom wisdom for the future to expand.

Team

Evolve Relating Team

Meet the people involved in bringing this work to you

Damien Bohler
Founder, Co-Director & Facilitator

Damien is a pragmatic visionary who loves synthesising complex information into digestible forms. He dreams of being back on the land raising children, dogs and goats.

Katie Fields
Co-Director & Generalist

Katie shares and supports in the creation of the bigger vision as a versatile creatrix. She is passionate about evolving humanity through relationships and is a wonderful mumma bear.

Anna Jaaniste
Facilitator & Admin

Anna is deeply interested in creative practice as a way of life. She sees life as a wondrous, ever-evolving network of relationships. These principles are her guiding stars.

Intimacy

Subscribe & Receive the free “Foundations of Intimacy” course!

Delivered straight into your inbox, this course covers the four pillars to create thriving evolutionary relationships:

Learn the number 1 key Authentic Relating skill for deeper intimacy

Discover the four insecure Attachment types

Explore the energetics of masculine-feminine Polarity

Testimonials

Here are some of the things prior participants have shared about this work.

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Name Surname

Position, Company name

"If it weren’t for you, I wouldn’t be who I am today. I wouldn’t have the awareness of my patterns and I wouldn’t have had the tools to heal and evolve. I wouldn’t be the woman or the coach I am now. You are one of the best in the industry and have played a significant role in helping me heal my insecure attachment, I am beyond grateful for your work Damien."

Samantha Manovski

Intimacy Coach

"I consider the time I have spent attending Damien's courses as an extraordinary juncture in my personal growth and development. The knowledge and insights gained from his teachings have proven to be pivotal and have had a profound impact on my life. "

Joanna Addison

Mental Health Worker

"This has been an absolute game changer for me. It has opened me up to incredible opportunities in life that I thought I would never get to experience. Prior to this i found myself in patterns that led to disconnection, people pleasing and panic attacks. What I believe to be possible in my life has radically shifted. "

Thomas Blom Karlsen

Student

"I wish i had known 20 years ago that this work is soooo essential. My lover suddenly feels soft and surrendered in my clarity, safe in how i hold our container with her in mind...Beautiful, expanding, grounding....This is much needed on my life's journey... Highly recommend."

Patrick Wolf

Film work-flow Analyst

"This has been a revelation that reshaped the way I connect with people. If you're seeking a journey of self-discovery, and want more fulfilling relationships, Evolve Relating is your compass. An investment in yourself that weaves transformative threads."

Denise Ferris

Humanitarian

"As someone who wasn’t allowed to take up space in the world as a child, Damien’s work gave me specific trauma-informed exercises that allowed me to finally feel more confident moving through the world safer in my own skin. "

Taylor Houchens

Counsellor

"I've done a lot of courses over the years, including many in the realm of human relating, and this was one of the best. The material was extremely valuable; Damien's lectures were clear, instructive, and to the point; the practical exercises were challenging and expansive. "

River Jade Satya

Festival Organiser

"I'm much better at talking about my boundaries. I'm much better at presenting them in elegant ways. Learning the difference between a wall and a boundary is really powerful.I can now ask for what I want with ease, my boundaries are much more embodied. "

Sarah Waldin

Psychotherapist

"I'd previously done a lot of somatic and self development work, However there is something about the way Damien explains and demonstrates things that makes it so easy to digest and continually implement. Brilliant for both beginners and those who have been on the path for a while."

Emelitta Da Silva

Sales Professional

"Damien’s work is an incredible study on the nature of intimacy & secure relating. He has a remarkable way of opening this field up to to new layers of insight that go far beyond the fairly fixed ideas we see in the mainstream. His work has hugely impacted my personal & professional practice as a devotee of the intimate arts and as a facilitator and coach."

Alex Mischka

Men’s Coach

"This gave me insight on the various ways boundaries exist and on what level they play a role (mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually). Most importantly, instead of learning about boundary work on a mental level, this workshop helped me experience how my boundaries actually FEEL in my body."

Floor Pijpers

Wellbeing Coach

"I wish I did this 10 years ago. The insights, tools and embodiment practices have actually made a change in my life, in my relationships. I feel confident and empowered and I can now experience love and freedom on a deeper level. "

Floor Pijpers

Wellbeing Coach

"Damien’s work is an incredible study on the nature of intimacy & secure relating. He has a remarkable way of opening this field up to to new layers of insight that go far beyond the fairly fixed ideas we see in the mainstream. His work has hugely impacted my personal & professional practice as a devotee of the intimate arts and as a facilitator and coach."

Alex Mischka

Men’s Coach

"What I also loved was the concept of energetic boundaries and if they are strong enough you don't need to assert your boundaries verbally. That really changed a lot for me and I have actually seen it work in my life. As always, Damien has such an easy, understandable way to explain structures and concepts."

Sophie Dierickx

Project Manager

"If it weren’t for you, I wouldn’t be who I am today. I wouldn’t have the awareness of my patterns and I wouldn’t have had the tools to heal and evolve. I wouldn’t be the woman or the coach I am now. You are one of the best in the industry and have played a significant role in helping me heal my insecure attachment, I am beyond grateful for your work Damien."

Samantha Manovski

Intimacy Coach

"What I love about Damien, is how it feels like everything he teaches comes from what he embodies in himself. This means his programs feel authentic and deeply lived."

Bree Taylor Molyneaux

Intimacy Coach

"I’ve taken Fundamentals twice. It truly is a transformational training. For me it was the many embodied practices that really created the shift. I felt so empowered by the end of it and the practices have become a regular part of my life."

Candice Storey

Holistic Psychotherapist

"I'm feeling so deeply nourished from the level of connection which is available to me from what I've learned in this course. I have absolutely no doubt that this work will continue to support me for the rest of my life, helping me to unravel the essence of who I am more deeply, and help me to experience the essence of others too. Wow, what a gift."

Jordan Biffen

ISTA Event Coordinator

"I wish i had known 20 years ago that this work is soooo essential. My lover suddenly feels soft and surrendered in my clarity, safe in how i hold our container with her in mind...Beautiful, expanding, grounding....This is much needed on my life's journey... Highly recommend."

Patrick Wolf

Film work-flow Analyst

"I decided to do this work because I noticed that people who had, had changed dramatically for the better in their relating skills. Damien creates a space that is both edgy and safe, moving us beyond established paradigms... into new realms of relating and intimacy"

Andreas Notarpietro

Therapist

"I’m starting to experience levels of intimacy I only dreamed were possible, in all my relationships and with myself. I see so many shifts in how my lover and I relate, the beauty of it makes me cry."

Rachel Bull

Somatic Guide

Frequently Asked Questions

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What is Evolve Relating?

What we are truly focused on is exploring the ways that humanity can evolve and grow into new ways of being on the planet.

We believe that this must include a strong emphasis on how we relate with each other, and becoming increasingly elegant and collaborative in our relationships.

Currently our major focus is on romantic relationships, as these offer a high leverage point for transformation. Until we heal our romantic relationships, and begin to unfold the next potential of intimacy relating, it will be difficult to truly effect bigger change.

You can read more about our mission on the "About Us" page.

What types of programs and courses do you offer?

Our programs and courses are focused on different aspects needed to create effective and beautiful relationships with others.

These courses range from those on the nervous system, boundaries, authentic relating, attachment theory, masculine-feminine polarity, and more to come.

We offer standalone self-paced courses, individual workshops and our Secure Intimacy membership program which combines course work with live classes inside of a thriving community of peers dedicated to creating the conditions for incredible relationships to flourish.

Who are your courses and membership for?

We serve those who feel the call to realise their potential.

Those who know inside of them that there is more that wants to be awakened, an evolution.

Our courses and Secure Intimacy membership are for those who know that incredible relationships are possible, ones that are inspiring and filled with love and passion, yet also safe and secure enough to really grow inside of.

We support the flowering and flourishing of relationships.

Can I try a course or the membership before I commit?

We have several short courses and workshops under the price of $50 that you can explore as a small investment to see what this work is like.

Our membership does not currently have a free trial, however you are able to sign up for a weekly price to see what it's like, and cancelling is easy anytime.

If you aren't ready to dive in that deep yet, then check out our articles and podcast on the resources page, and sign up to the newsletter to see what we are all about.

What makes Evolve Relating's approach unique?

Firstly, we are focused on evolving through relationship with others. This is distinct against most spiritual and personal development approaches that focus primarily on the individual.

We see an evolutionary pulse rippling out from the individual to the couple to the family into the community/tribe.

When it comes to romantic partnering our model includes communication skills, attachment theory, polarity and awakening in union. Most other relationship teachers focus on only one or maybe two of these at most.

We see however the essentialness of developing a solid ground of communication, healing attachment wounds to create security and working consciously with masculine/feminine polarity as essential components necessary to experience more awakening, or a divine or sacred union which it is often called, with a partner.

What results can I expect from joining Evolve Relating?

Evolution!

What a lofty sentiment that is...

Pragmatically, our work will teach you to cultivate elegant communication skills, heal trauma and develop a resilient nervous system, create strong and healthy boundaries, earn a secure attachment, discover how to wield masculine/feminine polarity consciously, and a path to awakening into deeper intimacy.

The outcome of all of this is happier, healthier, more fulfilling, safe and passionate relationships.

Which in turn creates a happier and less stressed you.

Healthier and happier families.

And eventually this will ripple out to touch our friends and the greater community.

You evolve. Your relationships evolve. Your community evolves.

How do I access your courses or programs?

All of our courses, workshops and the membership are hosted through our platform Evolve Community.

When you purchase or sign-up for any of these, you will be able to create an account to access your product.

This is also the place where our community takes place, which you will be welcome to join in on.

How can I stay updated on new courses or other offerings?

Sign up to our email list below!

You will receive our Deep Intimacy newsletter each week where we go deep into the nuances of evolving through romantic relationship.

We will also keep you posted on any courses, workshops or free events that are on offer.

Are you ready to dive in?

The relationship you have been yearning for awaits you, will you be ready?

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