Standards
The Art of Heart-Led Discernment
Standards aren't rules you set — they're signals revealing what your heart truly desires. Learn to read these signals, trust your knowing, and create relationships that reflect your deepest truth.
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Who Are Your Standards Serving?
When you really listen to your heart, you know exactly what you desire.
Yet somehow...
You find yourself questioning if you're being "too picky" even as something deeper whispers that these ideals matter.
Or perhaps you know what you want, but end up compromising in relationships that leave you feeling like you are giving up too much.
Maybe you're actually in partnership now, awakening to new values, wondering how to honour this evolution without breaking what you've already built.
Your standards aren't the problem.
They're trying to tell you something vital about who you are becoming.
Your Standards Create Your Life
What you are willing to accept
is what you will continue to experience
• Whether you meant to or not
• Whether it was your wounds talking
• Whether your ideals became a fortress
• Whether you were people-pleasing
• Whether perfection became your shield
Or even if you were just going along with it because you were too scared you wouldn't find anything else
The result will inevitably be the same
Because...
It's all happening inside you.
Standards: A Journey of Becoming
When standards are truly understood & embodied,
they become a portal to everything you've been seeking.
Not just in love, but in life itself.
This isn't about creating more rules or trying harder to hold boundaries.
It's about discovering a way of being where your standards flow naturally from your deepest truth.
Imagine knowing with unshakeable clarity exactly what serves your evolution.
Imagine being so aligned with knowing that compromise becomes impossible
Imagine boundaries arising effortlessly, not as walls you build, but as natural expressions of who you've become.
This is what happens when you allow your standards
to be what they truly are:
Signals guiding you home to yourself.
The journey isn't about becoming more selective...
It's about becoming more you.
Dating transforms from a search into a recognition.
Relationships evolve from compromise into co-creation.
Love expands from a hope into an embodied reality.
This is the art of heart-led discernment.
This is the path of living your standards.

What You'll Experience...
This intimate journey weaves together live guidance, embodied practices, and deep self-exploration to help you discover and align with your soul's vision for love.
Core Teaching Modules
Four comprehensive modules that systematically build your understanding of standards as spiritual signals, moving from intellectual grasp to lived embodiment. Each module includes both theory and practical integration exercises.
Soul Attunement Practices
A carefully crafted series of guided meditations that help you bypass the mind's usual patterns and access the deeper wisdom of your being. These practices create the inner quiet needed to hear your soul's true signals.
Full Relationship Clarity Process™
A proprietary journaling framework that helps you decode your past experiences, current desires, and future vision into a clear map of your authentic standards. This becomes your personal compass for relationship decisions.
Alignment Action Guides
Specialised guides that translate your standards into real-world action, from creating a magnetic dating profile to navigating evolving standards with a partner. These resources bridge theory and practice, with the right strategies, and frameworks for your relationship context. (More details below)
Course Modules
Each module builds upon the last, creating a journey from initial understanding to full embodiment of your standards as soul-level signals. The carefully structured progression ensures you don't just grasp these concepts intellectually, but integrate them as lived wisdom.

Clarity
Discover what you really want beneath the layers of conditioning and compromise. Learn to distinguish between preferences and true standards, while identifying the non-negotiables that honour your deepest truth. This foundational module helps you recognise the subtle signals your soul has been sending about what truly serves your evolution.

Embodiment
Move beyond intellectual understanding into felt knowing. Through specific practices and embodiment based exercises, you'll learn to feel your standards in your body rather than just think about them in your mind. This module transforms abstract concepts into clear, physical signals that guide your choices. To have what you want, you must become it.

Boundaries
Develop the capacity to honour your standards with grace and power. Learn how boundaries emerge naturally from embodied knowing, replacing forced rules with authentic expression. This module shows you how to maintain your standards while also staying open to the right kind of deep connection.

Alignment
Experience the natural flow that comes when your choices align with your soul's knowing. Discover how aligned standards create magnetic attraction, drawing experiences that match your deepest truth. This final module brings everything together, showing you how to live from this place of profound alignment.
LIVE Workshop Times & Dates
Experience real-time breakthrough moments in our intimate group workshops, carefully scheduled to serve our global community.
Each session is offered twice in two different time zones to ensure you can attend live wherever you are in the world. These workshops are where theory transforms into lived wisdom through direct guidance and collective insight.
*All sessions are recorded for those unable to attend live.
**Click days to expand and see times and dates for each session
Mondays (North America)
Tuesdays (AU, NZ, Asia)
Thursdays (EU, Africa, AU, Asia)
Bonus Guides
These focused trainings are designed to help you apply your new-found standards wisdom to specific relationship contexts, whether you're dating or deepening an existing partnership.
*Note: Guides will be available late April 2025
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Standards-Led Dating
Transform your dating experience from uncertainty to empowered exploration. From crafting a profile that attracts aligned partners to navigating first-date conversations with authenticity, this guide shows you how to weave standards awareness into every stage of dating. Learn to turn compatibility questions into playful discovery, recognize genuine alignment cues, and trust your discernment while staying open to connection.

Partners in Evolution
Discover how to weave individual standards into a shared vision of love. This intimate guide helps couples navigate the delicate balance of honouring both personal truth and partnership potential. Learn practical communication frameworks for discussing evolving needs, creating agreements that respect both souls' authentic paths, and transforming potential conflict points into opportunities for deeper connection and conscious collaboration.
Pricing Options
Standards Self-Study
*Payment Plans available at checkout
Standards + Community
The Dating Accelerator™
* Limited spots
* Payment plans available
About the Teacher
Damien is the founder of Evolve Relating. He has been facilitating, teaching and coaching for 10+ years. His gift is in the synthesising of complex concepts into practical ways to grow. He weaves together authentic relating, attachment theory, polarity, developmental psychology, and awakening techniques into a holistic system of relational transformation

Testimonials
Here are some of the things prior participants have shared about this work.

Frequently Asked Questions
This course is designed for both singles and couples. Singles will discover how to identify and honour their authentic standards, creating a foundation for attracting aligned partnerships. Couples will learn how to navigate the evolution of individual standards within a relationship, fostering deeper connection through mutual understanding. The practices are adaptable for both scenarios, with alternatives provided for any partner exercises.
The beauty about this course is that it's self-paced.
You can go through it in your own time.
If you wanted to complete the course one module per week you might dedicate 2-3 hours a week watching the content and doing the practices, or if you are happy with a more relaxed approach to learning, it could be as little as 1 hour a week.
This is actually quite common! You can absolutely participate solo and still experience profound shifts in your relationship. By understanding and embodying your own standards more fully, you naturally change the relationship dynamic. Many course takers have reported that their partners became curious and engaged with the principles indirectly, simply by witnessing the positive changes. The course provides specific guidance for implementing what you learn even when your partner isn't directly involved.
You are able to ask direct questions on any of the modules or practices inside the course — I monitor these personally.
AND if you are looking for extra support during the course, considering upgrading to the All-Access Membership (you will receive a special offer to join after purchasing the Standards Course).
The membership has regular group coaching sessions, practice & implementation sessions and an entire community platform to ask questions.
While we can't guarantee you'll find your soulmate, what we can promise is that you'll be significantly more aligned to recognise and connect with compatible partners. The subtle ways we block love from finding us are often invisible until we gain clarity about what we truly want and need. This course teaches you both how to get clarity on your authentic standards and how to unravel the patterns holding you back. Many participants report that their relationship landscape transforms within weeks of beginning this work—whether attracting new aligned connections or deepening existing ones. You'll certainly be in a better position to welcome your ideal partnership than when you started the course!
The concepts and practices in this work are carefully delivered in a way to be accessible to all.
Whether you are a beginner on the journey of conscious relating, or have a lot of experience already and are finding yourself really ready to find your match — this course will meet you where you are at.
You don't need to have any prior experience in spiritual practice or self-development work to get the benefits from this course.
And you don't even need to believe in the concept of a soul either!
We offer a 3-day cooling-off period after purchase, during which you can request a full refund for any reason. Beyond that, we have a satisfaction guarantee: if you genuinely commit to the course and practices wholeheartedly and find you truly experience no results, we'll offer a full refund minus an administration fee. Our refund rate is less than 1%, reflecting our confidence in the transformation this work facilitates when embraced fully.
Standards takes a fundamentally different approach by focusing on embodied wisdom rather than intellectual concepts or rigid rules. While many programs teach you what to do, Standards helps you discover who you're becoming and how to align with your soul's vision. This course addresses the root causes of relationship patterns by connecting you with your authentic knowing, creating natural boundaries and magnetic alignment rather than forcing techniques that don't resonate deeply with your truth.
Have any questions that aren't answered here?
Email us: support@evolverelating.com
Your Perfect Match is Wondering
Where You've Been
Whether they are eagerly waiting to meet you, or already sitting right next to you!
(Hint: this course is the connection they've been hoping for)
