Purity and Capacity

Understanding masculine-feminine polarity through the language of the heart

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Jan 20, 2024

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Integrated Polarity

This Essential Polarity Drives Romantic Connection

In Romantic Relationships communication is always happening between the masculine and the feminine, whether we are conscious of it or not.

Understanding the nature of this communication liberates us to connect with more depth, love and appreciation for our innate differences.

Cultivate Love & Trust

The Healthy Expression of this polarity creates deep currents of love and trust between the masculine and the feminine

When our pure expression is distorted…

And our capacity to receive is limited…

Shame and blame will inevitably take hold

Relationships then become a painful grind of projection, blame and endless fighting

The feminine is unable to express her feelings cleanly.

The masculine is unable to receive her without taking it personally.

When she criticizes, he collapses When he collapses, she fears

When he reacts, she hurts When she hurts, he feels shame

Round and around, feeding a toxic matrix of negativity.

She is confused… “why can’t he just hear my pain?”

He is anguished… “why do I always hurt her?”

The feminine heart needs to feel and express her feelings.

The masculine heart needs to know he is enough.

The degree to which she can feel and express cleanly is her purity.

The degree to which he can hear feelings without taking it personally is his capacity.

Together these dynamics of purity and capacity create the space, security and clarity in a relationship for love & connection to flow easily

And when love flows, and trust grows ~ we thrive

Your relationship, or future romance, will thank you for this

In this workshop we will cover both theory and practice so that you can cultivate a deeper understanding of this dynamic, where it goes wrong, and how you can bring it back on track.


Discover a simple practice to ground, open and receive with the full depths of masculine presence and power.


Be guided into a deep experience of pure feminine expression and sensation... reveal the blocks that prevent the natural flow of bliss.

For the Masculine

Understand and transcend the mechanism that causes collapse, reactivity and shame in the face of intense feminine emotion.

For the Feminine

Learn the distinction between truly vulnerable feelings and projected emotions so you are received more easily and deeply

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What you receive

This course will guide you through a theory and practices to transform your communication with the opposite sex


Educational content presented in a two-hour live recorded workshop.


Guided practice to understand emotional expression through masculine-feminine polarity

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Course Instructor
Damien Bohler
Founder & Facilitator

Damien is the founder of Evolve Relating. He has been facilitating, teaching and coaching for 10+ years. His gift is in the synthesising of complex concepts into practical ways to grow. He weaves together authentic relating, attachment theory, polarity and awakening techniques into a holistic system of relational transformation.

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