Membership

Find Calm amidst the Chaos of Modern Relationships

Master the skills to attract, create and maintain thriving, healthy relationships —that grow stronger with time— for less than the cost of one therapy session a month.

Don’t wait any longer.

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Why Choose a Membership?

Receive ongoing support, resources, and a community that heals & evolves with you every step of the way.

Evolve your Intimacy

Bring an end to relationship confusion

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by the demands of relationships in today’s fast-paced world, you're not alone.

From endless misunderstandings, to finding yourself with the wrong people, or feeling like your needs aren’t met with someone you thought was right—these struggles are all too common.

But it doesn’t have to be this way.

Thriving, deeply loving relationships that grow with you, having you feel fully seen, heard, and met are not just possible—they’re within your reach.

Create a NEW Template for Relationship

Why Choose a Membership?

Receive ongoing support, resources, and a community that heals & evolves with you every step of the way.

Too often, the expectation is that a single event, book, or course can fix everything in our life.

But relationships are dynamic—they evolve, face new challenges, and grow through many seasons.

While one-time solutions can provide valuable insights and experiences, they often leave us with only a piece of the puzzle.

The reality is, true growth requires time, practice, and consistent support.

As we change over time, so do our relational needs.

The Evolve Relating Membership ensures you’re never alone on this journey, offering you a steady foundation of resources and the community to support you through every season of your growth.

Transformation is magnified in the presence of others.

We become the people we spend our time with, and the information that we consume.

Our community is more than just a resource—it’s a complete system where you can practice new skills, receive feedback, and celebrate your growth with peers who truly understand your journey.

This isn't just another program to tick off your list.

Evolve Relating has transformed the lives of many, helping them find and create deep, loving relationships.

By becoming a member, you’re stepping into a portal that’s designed to create real, lasting transformation and relational mastery.

A Dynamic Framework for Relational Mastery

Relationships are more than just a single set of skills—they are dynamic, ever-changing, and require different tools at different stages of healing and growth.

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Most approaches to relationships treat them as static: a series of simple tips or rules that, once followed, guarantee success.

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But the truth is, relationships evolve as we do, and a one-size-fits-all solution falls short.

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That’s why the Evolve Relating Membership offers something different—a living map.

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This is not just another program.

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This membership contains a dynamic, evolving framework that adapts as you grow, meeting you where you are, at each phase of your personal and relational development.

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Whether you are single and figuring out how to meet someone, learning to navigate the early stages of a relationship, deepening your intimacy over time in an established relationship, or healing wounds from the past... our approach is built to evolve with you—helping you develop the precise skills needed at every step of your journey.

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A Holistic Approach to Relational Mastery

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The Evolve Relating Living Map is designed to cover every angle needed to heal, grow and evolve through relationship:

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  • Self-Mastery:

Develop emotional resilience and nervous system regulation, create embodied boundaries, build powerful standards & a solid sense of self-esteem

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  • Empowered Communication:

Learn to communicate with vulnerability, clarity, and transparency while listening with empathy and understanding to deepen intimacy & navigate conflict with grace

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  • Secure Attachment:‍

Understand and heal your attachment patterns, whether anxious or avoidant, creating secure bonds that allow you to feel deeply connected while staying true to yourself
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  • Polarity & Eros:‍

Discover how to create, sustain and enhance the sexual and romantic energy in your relationships through a healthy dance between the masculine and feminine
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  • Evolution & Awakening:

Transform your relationships into a crucible for awakening and profound growth on a path to your unique expression of divine union

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Your Relationship Resource for Every Stage of Intimacy

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Unlike traditional courses that give you a set of tools for one moment in time, our map is designed to meet you at every step of your journey—whether you're seeking a new connection, in the early stages of relationship, or navigating long-term commitment.

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Relationships are not a destination—they are an ongoing, ever-evolving journey.

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With the Evolve Relating Membership, you’ll have a living map that walks alongside you, providing the support, resources, and wisdom you need to continue growing, healing, and thriving.

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This is your guide to navigating the complexity of modern relationships—empowering you to feel more connected, passionate, and fulfilled, no matter what stage of the journey you're in.

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Experience the Benefits

Unlock the Relationships You Were Always Meant to Have

No more settling for half-hearted connections or repeating the same old patterns. It’s time to step into a complete system of support, tools, and community that empowers you to break free from the past and create lasting, deeply fulfilling relationships.

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Attract the Right Partner

If you’re single and ready for a deeper connection, we help you find the right person by building the relational skills that create lasting intimacy and romance—no more wasting time on dead ends.

Strengthen Your Bond

Evolve together by overcoming challenges, deepening your connection and reigniting polarity. Learn how to communicate with clarity and openness to reignite the spark, even after years.

Live Authentic to You

Whether you’re a man or woman, we’ll help you step fully into your own unique identity—free from social convention—so that you can build deep, genuine connections that honour your true essence.

Heal & Rebuild

If you’ve been left scarred by past relationships, it’s time to reclaim your self-worth. With the right nurturing and perspective, pain can be transformed into the potential for love once again.

"This has been nothing short of life changing! Even though I had worked as a therapist for most of my life I found myself struggling when deep attachment wounds and traumas arose. Within 2 to 3 weeks of joining I was seeing a lot of improvement in my nervous system and my relationships. A few months later I entered the healthiest relationship I’d ever been in that i’m still in now."

Bree

Intimacy & Embodiment Coach

Explore a Living Library of Relationship Mastery

Gain an all access pass to an ever-growing collection of courses, masterclasses and workshops designed to help you thrive in relationship.

Whether you're looking for tools to deepen intimacy, find a new partner, heal, or just make sense of the complexity of modern love, our library is continually expanding—so there's always something new to explore.

Below are just some of the courses we have on offer:
(Explore the full list here)

Intimacy

Secure

Heal attachment patterns, build healthy relationships, and develop lasting intimacy with confidence and clarity.

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Empowered Communication

Vulnerable

Master the skill of being seen with the art of vulnerability

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Self Mastery

Centred

Simple tools to untrigger your life, and come back to peace

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Empowered Communication

Authentic Relating

The most complete course on Authentic Relating out there!

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Self Mastery

Regulate

Get the keys to a healed & resilient nervous system

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Self Mastery

Boundaried

Develop Embodied Boundaries that go beyond just "No"

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Self Mastery

Standards

The mindset to get the life and love you really want

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Polarity & Eros

Parasympathetic Arousal

The ecstasy of secure turn-on

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Polarity & Eros

Purity & Capacity

Working with the Masculine & Feminine in Conflict

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Experience Our Live Classes

Whether you’re ready to deepen your relationships or embark on a healing journey, our live classes are here to support your growth.
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Each of these sessions occurs twice a month, in two different timezones.

Lightning Coaching

Group Coaching sessions are an opportunity to ask questions and receive on-the-spot coaching from Damien. Any topic from any of the Evolve Relating content is welcome (and beyond). Bring your curiosities, your challenges, your growth edges, bring it all.

Embodied Inquiry

Led by Amanda, these sessions combine nervous system, somatic self practice, parts work, expressive arts and symbol work to help you access the subconscious and build your self love, self knowledge and capacity to be in relationship from a more centred and empowered place.

Relating Lab

These sessions are designed to help you practice the core skills of authentic relating. If you want incredible relationships, you need to practice relating itself. Facilitated by Anna, this is your space to strengthen relational muscles, deepen connection, and grow through potent, structured exercises.

Insight Circles

Insight Circles, guided by Damien, dive deep into group wisdom and authentic connection. These sessions invite you to share, be witnessed, and explore themes that emerge through vulnerability and insight. It’s a profound space for community growth and exploring what it means to relate deeply as an evolving human.

Your Path to Relationship Ease

Cut through the complexity and gain access to the skills, coaching, practices and support you need to create lasting, fulfilling relationships.

Expert Guided Relationship Skills

Learn practical, proven methods to navigate modern relationships with ease, guided by trained experts with many years of experience, dedication and passion for this work.

Comprehensive Resource Library

Access a vast library of courses, masterclasses, and mini-courses on everything from attracting the right partner to deepening long-term connection—available anytime you need it.

Weekly Live Coaching & Practice Classes

Join live drop-in sessions available multiple times a week for personalised coaching, authentic relating skill development, somatic therapy sessions, and much more.

A Community for Real Growth

Be part of a thriving, like-minded community where you can connect, share, and learn from others on the same journey toward relational mastery.

Workshops & Cohorts

This membership is an all-access pass to everything... all live full length courses, workshops & masterclasses that run throughout the year are yours to join, or watch the recordings of.

Ongoing Support at an Affordable Price

All of this is available for less than the cost of a single coaching or therapy session each month, giving you constant, deep and holistic support at a fraction of the cost.

Your Pathway to Lasting Relationship Transformation

See how your relationships evolve over time—start with awareness, develop key skills, and build deep, thriving connections - for life.

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3 Months : Clarity & Awareness

In the first three months, you’ll gain a deep understanding of your relationship patterns, uncovering what’s working and what’s holding you back. This foundation will set you up for real change.

6 months : Skills & Practice

By the six-month mark, you’ll have learned and practiced key relationship skills. Through live coaching and courses, you'll feel more confident navigating both new and existing relationships.

1 year : Connection & Growth

After a year, you'll have built stronger connections and started to experience real, lasting changes in your relationships. The support of the community will have helped you stay accountable to your continued evolution.

Beyond : Mastery & Transformation

As you continue past the first year, your relationships, new and old, will reach ever increasingly profound levels of depth and intimacy. The tools, support, and ongoing learning will ensure that your growth never stops.

Live classes in the Secure Intimacy membership

And you also get access to live drop in classes every week!
Learn the course content in an ongoing facilitated container.
Meet other community members.
Access ALL new material!

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Testimonials

When your relationships heal, your life changes.

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"I wish i had known 20 years ago that this work is soooo essential. My lover suddenly feels soft and surrendered in my clarity, safe in how i hold our container with her in mind...Beautiful, expanding, grounding....This is much needed on my life's journey... Highly recommend."

Patrick Wolf

Film work-flow Analyst

"This has been a revelation that reshaped the way I connect with people. If you're seeking a journey of self-discovery, and want more fulfilling relationships, Evolve Relating is your compass. An investment in yourself that weaves transformative threads."

Denise Ferris

Humanitarian

"Damien’s work is an incredible study on the nature of intimacy & secure relating. He has a remarkable way of opening this field up to to new layers of insight that go far beyond the fairly fixed ideas we see in the mainstream. His work has hugely impacted my personal & professional practice as a devotee of the intimate arts and as a facilitator and coach."

Alex Mischka

Men’s Coach

"I decided to do this work because I noticed that people who had, had changed dramatically for the better in their relating skills. Damien creates a space that is both edgy and safe, moving us beyond established paradigms... into new realms of relating and intimacy"

Andreas Notarpietro

Therapist

"I’m starting to experience levels of intimacy I only dreamed were possible, in all my relationships and with myself. I see so many shifts in how my lover and I relate, the beauty of it makes me cry."

Rachel Bull

Somatic Guide

Facilitators

Your guides on this journey

Damien Bohler

Founder & Facilitator

Damien is the founder of Evolve Relating. He has been facilitating, teaching and coaching for 10+ years. His gift is in the synthesising of complex concepts into practical ways to grow. He weaves together authentic relating, attachment theory, developmental psychology, polarity and awakening techniques into a holistic system of relational transformation.

Anna Jaaniste

Facilitator

With two and a half decades of experience as a facilitator leading groups into play, discussion and creativity together, Anna has a passion for supporting people into delightful and fruitful interaction with themselves and others. Anna has been practicing Authentic Relating for 10 years and facilitating AR for 5 years. She is a counsellor and a practicing artist.

Amanda Patterson

Facilitator

Amanda is a dedicated guide in personal transformation, blending 25+ years of experience in therapy, coaching, energy practices and bodywork to help people heal and connect more deeply in self & relationships. She combines Somatic Experiencing, Attachment therapy, Essence coaching and Parts Dialogue into her 1:1 sessions, small groups and practitioner trainings.

Frequently Asked Questions

Your most common questions answered

How much time will it take to participate?

It’s flexible!

You can invest as little as 20-30 minutes per week and still experience growth, or immerse yourself in live classes, courses and deeper practices. The key is consistency—you’ll be able to apply what you learn directly to your daily life.

We've designed the membership so it supports all types and styles of learning.

Can I join anytime?

Yes!

We have an open door membership, you can sign up anytime and join right in.

There are a few short onboarding videos to help you get up to speed quickly, but once you are in you are welcome to dive into any of the live classes and meet the warm, friendly community as soon as you are ready.

Can I meet people in the Membership?

Absolutely!

The Evolve Relating Membership is a supportive, respectful community where you can connect with others. We encourage interaction both on live calls and in the discussion spaces.

You’ll also have the chance to make meaningful friendships with others on the same journey, as many of our members already have.

Is this Membership trauma-informed?

Yes, we take great care to be supportive to everyone at every stage of their journey.

Our approach is deeply trauma-informed, meaning we prioritise safety, sensitivity, and understanding of how past experiences shape relationships. All of our courses and live sessions are designed to support healing and growth at your own pace.

All of our facilitators have extensive backgrounds in working with trauma and healing and are available to provide extra support if ever needed.

Inside, what you'll find is a deeply supportive, non-judgmental environment where you can explore, heal and evolve without concerns.

Is it easy to cancel if it's not for me?

Yes, you can cancel anytime.

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It's easy and straight-forward and we let you know how to do it as soon as you join.

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Just make sure to cancel before the next billing period starts.

Are there classes & workshops available in my timezone?

Yes!

We offer live sessions in multiple timezones to cover the US, Europe, and Australasia.

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More timezones will be added as we grow.

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For class schedules, reach out to us at support@evolverelating.com.

How does the community work in the Membership?

We’re excited about our community platform!

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It’s a dedicated space with discussion spaces, private messaging, articles and more... hopefully it will replace your Facebook feed!

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Inside you'll have easy access to all of the courses, workshops, coaching recordings and interactions with other members for a compete community experience.

Will I have lifetime access to the content and courses?

No, this is a subscription-based membership.

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You’ll only have access to the courses and content as long as you're an active member.

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‍Want to keep a course for life?

You can purchase individual courses separately on our site, or reach out to us for a bundle discount.

Are the live sessions recorded?

Yes!

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Workshops, Masterclasses, Group Coaching, and any live courses are recorded and will be available within 24 hours.

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‍Note: some community conversations and practice classes are not recorded due to their more vulnerable and interactive nature.

When will I receive access?

Immediately!

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As soon as your payment is processed, you'll gain access to all the courses, community spaces and calendar for all the upcoming live events.

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