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The Fundamentals of Authentic Relating
Deepen all your relationships with transformational authentic relating skills in this 8 module course
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Your Path to more Authentic Relationships
Imagine having so much confidence in your relating skills that all of your relationships become nourishing, whole & empowered.
The true potential of relationships is that they can be sanctuaries of connection, healing, growth and evolution… all without the pain, frustration, loneliness and endless cycles of conflict.
This is possible.
Your journey to best relationships of your life starts here.
Authentic Relating empowers all of your relationships
The skills you learn with Authentic Relating are the foundational building blocks of communication, and apply any kind of relationship.
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Romantic
Move from pain, conflict and disconnection… into playful, intimate and secure love.
Friendships
Have more fun, deep, mutually supportive and nourishing friendships in your life
Family
Create family connections where you all feel seen, heard and loved… parents and children alike.
Work
Discover the communication tools to create more flow, more team-playing and better boundaries in your work life.
Authentic Relating will transform your relationships
All relationships are created through the way we relate.
What Fundamentals of Authentic Relating teaches
Life is composed of relationships.
No matter where we turn, we will find that the quality of our life is fundamentally tethered to the quality of our relationships.
Take a moment right now to reflect on some of your most memorable life experiences.
You will probably find that at least some of them, if not all of them, include other people.
Love, family, friendships, community, prosperity, and sex… all come back to the quality of our relationships with other people.
“Humans are not solitary creatures. We are in relationship, always. Do you ever stop and ask yourself, “What is the quality of these relationships in my life?”
— Damien Bohler, course creator
We grow high-quality relationships through high-quality relating....
Relating that is vulnerable, mindful, joyful, in integrity to our authentic selves, and capable of listening deeply to others.
Yet relating is not something we are taught.
We grew up watching the adults around us and many of us didn’t have the best role models. So we’ve all inherited less-than-elegant ways of relating.
These ways of relating have been harming our relationships. Creating conflict and misunderstanding where it doesn’t need to exist.
The great thing is that relating is a skill that really can be developed.
What you’ll learn in each module
The Fundamentals of Authentic Relating contains eight modules that build from each other to transform you into an elegant communicator
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Embodied Relating
We will explore a powerful synergy between deep listening and vulnerability through embodying the principles of presence, acceptance and non-judgment.
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Reflective Listening
Developing this listening skill leads to a magical ability to really have others feel seen, heard and validated in your presence and offers a state of deep safety and relaxation.
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Curiosity
Curiosity is a relational tool that leads others to comfortably reveal their depths, creating the possibility of beautiful and novel bonding experiences.
4
Transformative Listening
Expanding on the reflective listening module, here we develop the skill to offer profoundly transformative reflections and deep experiences of feeling seen.
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Desire
Having the ability to vulnerably express your needs and desires leads to the depth and quality of relational experiences that you most want.
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Boundaries
Elegant boundaries are the ability to maintain differentiation from others while also feeling close to them. This capacity is absolutely crucial in healthy relating.
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Attunement
This module teaches how to step into the “we” space. Stepping into this field with another, even for a moment, is deeply nourishing and expansive, beyond words.
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Appreciation
All things come to a close. This module allows us the time and space to reflect on the experience, integrate and appreciate the beautiful journey we’ve undertaken together.
Master Your Relating. Master Your Relationships
With the tools and practices we give you in Fundamentals of Authentic Relating, you will naturally start to relate in a whole new way. And when you do, your relationships will begin to grow and evolve effortlessly.
Show up and be seen in all of you
Develop deep empathy & presence
Navigate difficult
conversations with grace
Create stimulating and trust
based connections
Heal relationship wounds
through vulnerability
Confidently express your
boundaries and desires
Course instructors
These are our certified authentic relating facilitators
Damien Bohler
Founder & Facilitator
Anna Jaaniste
Facilitator & Admin
Testimonials
Here are some of the things prior participants have shared about this work.
Name Surname
Position, Company name
Name Surname
Position, Company name
Samantha Manovski
Intimacy Coach
River Jade Satya
Festival Organiser
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Candice Storey
Holistic Psychotherapist
Jordan Biffen
ISTA Event Coordinator
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Authentic Relating supports the creation of Secure Intimacy
If you are looking to learn Authentic Relating as part of creating a healthy, thriving romantic relationship then our membership program may be the thing for you.
The complete Fundamentals of Authentic Relating course library
Weekly drop-in guided practice classes
Practice directly with others OR join the membership with your partner and be guided into practice together!
Plus so so much more…
Pricing Options
Get access to the course library immediately, or join the waitlist for the next live course
Are you ready to dive in?
The relationship you have been yearning for awaits you, will you be ready?
