Intimacy

Have the deep, passionate and secure intimacy you dream of

We bring you the most powerful practices, tools and frameworks to create, grow and maintain the incredible relationships you know are possible.

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Evolve Intimacy

Our Approach to Incredible Intimacy

We take a holistic approach to intimacy, understanding that relationships are complex, individual and unique. Yet at the deepest levels, the tools and skills that create thriving relationships are common to all of us. The difference between a happy, passionate and safe relationship or one filled with conflict, hurt and disappointment is all in the approach.

You get to choose.

Benefits of joining

Join us on an Evolutionary Journey into Intimacy

Let’s be honest, you know that incredible relationships are possible. You have an ache in your heart that yearns for them. Yet you have encountered challenges and struggles. Don’t worry, we all have… and we are here to help you transform and evolve through them.

Learn Powerful Communication

All relationships are built on the ways we relate. Here you will learn all the skills to become an excellent communicator.

Heal your Attachment System

Too many triggers ruin relationships. The health of your nervous & attachment systems are absolutely essential to thriving connections.

Create Lasting Passion

Who says you can’t have it all? Certainly not us! Discover how the best relationships balance both safety AND passion.

Explore Spiritual Intimacy

And when you are ready… drop into the mystery with us. Bring the transpersonal into your relationships. Gene Keys, Circling & more.

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Become a Secure Relater

Join our Secure Intimacy membership program for an accelerated path to creating, transforming and maintaining deep, passionate and secure intimacy.

Relationships are undoubtedly one of the most fascinating and challenging experiences for us humans.
The potential of so much pleasure and happiness, or pain and suffering.

Cultivate inner security so you can remain centred AND madly in love

Master the art of passion for relationships that are both hot and safe

Develop skillful relating to navigate all the challenges of relating with grace

Secure Intimacy Membership

Our membership program supports you at any stage of your journey to move towards the freedom, love and connection that are the hallmarks of healthy, thriving relationships.

If it weren’t for you, I wouldn’t be who I am today. I wouldn’t have the awareness of my patterns and I wouldn’t have had the tools to heal and evolve. I wouldn’t be the woman or the coach I am now. You are one of the best in the industry and have played a significant role in helping me heal my insecure attachment, I am beyond grateful for your work Damien.

Samantha

Intimacy & Sexuality Coach

Live classes in the Secure Intimacy membership

And you also get access to live drop in classes every week!
Learn the course content in an ongoing facilitated container.
Meet other community members.
Access ALL new material!

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And receive immediate access to all of the classes above, and so much more.
Intimacy

Subscribe & Receive the free “Foundations of Intimacy” course!

Delivered straight into your inbox, this course covers the four pillars to create thriving evolutionary relationships:

Learn the number 1 key Authentic Relating skill for deeper intimacy

Discover the four insecure Attachment types

Explore the energetics of masculine-feminine Polarity

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Explore our transformative practices

Our podcast “Intimacy Keys” is an exploration of the shadows, gifts and highest potentials possible in relationship. We have developed a transformative embodiment practice for each episode, breaking beyond theory and into your evolution.

Courses & Workshops

See our various standalone offerings to support your healing and evolution.

Testimonials

Here are some of the things prior participants have shared about this work.

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"If it weren’t for you, I wouldn’t be who I am today. I wouldn’t have the awareness of my patterns and I wouldn’t have had the tools to heal and evolve. I wouldn’t be the woman or the coach I am now. You are one of the best in the industry and have played a significant role in helping me heal my insecure attachment, I am beyond grateful for your work Damien."

Samantha Manovski

Intimacy Coach

"I consider the time I have spent attending Damien's courses as an extraordinary juncture in my personal growth and development. The knowledge and insights gained from his teachings have proven to be pivotal and have had a profound impact on my life. "

Joanna Addison

Mental Health Worker

"This has been an absolute game changer for me. It has opened me up to incredible opportunities in life that I thought I would never get to experience. Prior to this i found myself in patterns that led to disconnection, people pleasing and panic attacks. What I believe to be possible in my life has radically shifted. "

Thomas Blom Karlsen

Student

"I wish i had known 20 years ago that this work is soooo essential. My lover suddenly feels soft and surrendered in my clarity, safe in how i hold our container with her in mind...Beautiful, expanding, grounding....This is much needed on my life's journey... Highly recommend."

Patrick Wolf

Film work-flow Analyst

"This has been a revelation that reshaped the way I connect with people. If you're seeking a journey of self-discovery, and want more fulfilling relationships, Evolve Relating is your compass. An investment in yourself that weaves transformative threads."

Denise Ferris

Humanitarian

"As someone who wasn’t allowed to take up space in the world as a child, Damien’s work gave me specific trauma-informed exercises that allowed me to finally feel more confident moving through the world safer in my own skin. "

Taylor Houchens

Counsellor

"I've done a lot of courses over the years, including many in the realm of human relating, and this was one of the best. The material was extremely valuable; Damien's lectures were clear, instructive, and to the point; the practical exercises were challenging and expansive. "

River Jade Satya

Festival Organiser

"I'm much better at talking about my boundaries. I'm much better at presenting them in elegant ways. Learning the difference between a wall and a boundary is really powerful.I can now ask for what I want with ease, my boundaries are much more embodied. "

Sarah Waldin

Psychotherapist

"I'd previously done a lot of somatic and self development work, However there is something about the way Damien explains and demonstrates things that makes it so easy to digest and continually implement. Brilliant for both beginners and those who have been on the path for a while."

Emelitta Da Silva

Sales Professional

"Damien’s work is an incredible study on the nature of intimacy & secure relating. He has a remarkable way of opening this field up to to new layers of insight that go far beyond the fairly fixed ideas we see in the mainstream. His work has hugely impacted my personal & professional practice as a devotee of the intimate arts and as a facilitator and coach."

Alex Mischka

Men’s Coach

"This gave me insight on the various ways boundaries exist and on what level they play a role (mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually). Most importantly, instead of learning about boundary work on a mental level, this workshop helped me experience how my boundaries actually FEEL in my body."

Floor Pijpers

Wellbeing Coach

"I wish I did this 10 years ago. The insights, tools and embodiment practices have actually made a change in my life, in my relationships. I feel confident and empowered and I can now experience love and freedom on a deeper level. "

Floor Pijpers

Wellbeing Coach

"Damien’s work is an incredible study on the nature of intimacy & secure relating. He has a remarkable way of opening this field up to to new layers of insight that go far beyond the fairly fixed ideas we see in the mainstream. His work has hugely impacted my personal & professional practice as a devotee of the intimate arts and as a facilitator and coach."

Alex Mischka

Men’s Coach

"What I also loved was the concept of energetic boundaries and if they are strong enough you don't need to assert your boundaries verbally. That really changed a lot for me and I have actually seen it work in my life. As always, Damien has such an easy, understandable way to explain structures and concepts."

Sophie Dierickx

Project Manager

"If it weren’t for you, I wouldn’t be who I am today. I wouldn’t have the awareness of my patterns and I wouldn’t have had the tools to heal and evolve. I wouldn’t be the woman or the coach I am now. You are one of the best in the industry and have played a significant role in helping me heal my insecure attachment, I am beyond grateful for your work Damien."

Samantha Manovski

Intimacy Coach

"What I love about Damien, is how it feels like everything he teaches comes from what he embodies in himself. This means his programs feel authentic and deeply lived."

Bree Taylor Molyneaux

Intimacy Coach

"I wish i had known 20 years ago that this work is soooo essential. My lover suddenly feels soft and surrendered in my clarity, safe in how i hold our container with her in mind...Beautiful, expanding, grounding....This is much needed on my life's journey... Highly recommend."

Patrick Wolf

Film work-flow Analyst

"I’m starting to experience levels of intimacy I only dreamed were possible, in all my relationships and with myself. I see so many shifts in how my lover and I relate, the beauty of it makes me cry."

Rachel Bull

Somatic Guide

"I decided to do this work because I noticed that people who had, had changed dramatically for the better in their relating skills. Damien creates a space that is both edgy and safe, moving us beyond established paradigms... into new realms of relating and intimacy"

Andreas Notarpietro

Therapist

"I'm feeling so deeply nourished from the level of connection which is available to me from what I've learned in this course. I have absolutely no doubt that this work will continue to support me for the rest of my life, helping me to unravel the essence of who I am more deeply, and help me to experience the essence of others too. Wow, what a gift."

Jordan Biffen

ISTA Event Coordinator

"I’ve taken Fundamentals twice. It truly is a transformational training. For me it was the many embodied practices that really created the shift. I felt so empowered by the end of it and the practices have become a regular part of my life."

Candice Storey

Holistic Psychotherapist

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