Intimacy

#STANDARDS

You are allowed to want what you want.
And you can have it too. This course helps you gain the clarity, develop the boundaries and cultivate the alignment to call in the life and love you have been waiting for.

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Jan 20, 2024

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Live Your Standards

Who Do You Desire?

Do you have the life and the relationship you’ve always wanted?

When you were young and dreamed of what life would be like and who you would love... what did you dream of?

Has it turned out that way?

If not, then do you know why not?

What happened?

And if you had a way to get back on that path that you feel your heart yearning for... would you take it?

Your Standards create the life you experience

What you are willing to accept is what you will attract

What are you letting into your life, and what are you keeping out of it?

Life is always throwing things at you.

People, experiences, opportunities.

In a way the universe is asking you...

“What do you want?”

Your Standards are the signal that responds.

Anything you say “yes” to, you will get more of.

Anything you say “no” to, you will get less of.

Whether we meant to or not.


Whether it was our wounds talking.

Whether we were people-pleasing


Whether we were hoping for their potential to shine

Or we were going along because we were too scared that we wouldn’t find anything else.

The result will be the same. More or less... it all happens inside you.

“Holding a standard is the courage to say NO to everything that isn’t what you truly want, and the awareness to say YES to what is”

The #Standards course takes you on a journey of understanding, embodying and attracting your deepest desires to you.

You will start to realise that life is happening FOR you and not TO you.

You get to choose.

The benefits of #standards

Who You Will Become

In order to change the conditions of our life, we have to change ourselves on the inside. Developing standards is so much more than knowing what you don’t want... it’s becoming a match for what you do.

Certainty

Know with unshakable conviction exactly what it is you truly want

Openness

Deeper trust to receiving the life and relationships you desire

Confidence

Own the strength to say NO to everything that pulls you down

Magnetisim

Become a vibrational match to your heart’s yearning

Course modules

Become a match to your dreams

Each module contains information and practices to bring you closer to your deepest desires

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Module 1

Clarity
  • Discover what you really want
  • Preferences vs true standards
  • Compromises & non-negotiables

Module 2

Embodiment
  • Entitlement & Effacement
  • Reciprocity is the secret ingredient
  • Being who you want

Module 3

Boundaries
  • Elegant boundaries
  • The energetics of YES & NO
  • Becoming permeable to a beautiful life

Module 4

Alignment
  • Surrendering into Trust
  • Masculine & Feminine alignment
  • The currency of vibration

What you receive

This course will guide you through a synergistic set of information, tools and practices to reveal and align you with your true standards

Guided Practices

The course contains a set of powerful meditation, embodiment and reflective exercises designed to bring you into an alignment with the relationships and the life that you yearn for

Core Lessons

Each module contains prerecorded living theory that helps your mind conceptualize and understand the process of this transformation. First we know, and then we grow.

Clarity Mapping Process

The central element of the standards course is a comprehensive survey bringing you into illumination of your relationship standards across 5 key areas. We work with this content throughout the entire course.

Live Coaching Sessions

In January we kick-start 2024 by moving through this course as a group. For eight weeks there is a coaching session each week so that this material becomes fully embodied in you, giving you the best year yet!

Pricing Options

Make 2024 your year for love

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The live group container starts 22nd January 2024

& runs for 8 weeks

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Everything you need to both find & keep

The love of your dreams

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Everything you need to find & keep the love of your dreams

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Intimacy Package

Fill out this form to apply to work privately with Damien Bohler to develop your Secure Intimacy.

Let us know a little bit about you and where you are most wanting to grow. You will be contacted via email or message asap.

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Testimonials

Here are some of the things prior participants have shared about this work.

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"I wish i had known 20 years ago that this work is soooo essential. My lover suddenly feels soft and surrendered in my clarity, safe in how i hold our container with her in mind...Beautiful, expanding, grounding....This is much needed on my life's journey... Highly recommend."

Patrick Wolf

Film work-flow Analyst

"This has been a revelation that reshaped the way I connect with people. If you're seeking a journey of self-discovery, and want more fulfilling relationships, Evolve Relating is your compass. An investment in yourself that weaves transformative threads."

Denise Ferris

Humanitarian

"Damien’s work is an incredible study on the nature of intimacy & secure relating. He has a remarkable way of opening this field up to to new layers of insight that go far beyond the fairly fixed ideas we see in the mainstream. His work has hugely impacted my personal & professional practice as a devotee of the intimate arts and as a facilitator and coach."

Alex Mischka

Men’s Coach

"I’m starting to experience levels of intimacy I only dreamed were possible, in all my relationships and with myself. I see so many shifts in how my lover and I relate, the beauty of it makes me cry."

Rachel Bull

Somatic Guide

"I decided to do this work because I noticed that people who had, had changed dramatically for the better in their relating skills. Damien creates a space that is both edgy and safe, moving us beyond established paradigms... into new realms of relating and intimacy"

Andreas Notarpietro

Therapist

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Pricing plan

Pricing
Continue your journey to Secure Intimacy…
Everything included in the membership
All courses, live classes, community
Personalised guidance & mentoring
2 x 45 minutes 1:1 sessions per month
$
750
USD/month
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Pricing
Continue your journey to Secure Intimacy…
Double access to the membership
All courses, live classes, community
Personalised guidance & mentoring
1 x 1:1 session each + 1 x couples session per month
$
1250
USD/month
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Course Instructor
Damien Bohler
Founder & Facilitator

Damien is the founder of Evolve Relating. He has been facilitating, teaching and coaching for 10+ years. His gift is in the synthesising of complex concepts into practical ways to grow. He weaves together authentic relating, attachment theory, polarity and awakening techniques into a holistic system of relational transformation.

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