#STANDARDS
You are allowed to want what you want. And you can have it too. This course helps you gain the clarity, develop the boundaries and cultivate the alignment to call in the life and love you have been waiting for.

Date and time of course
Jan 20, 2024

Who Do You Desire?
Do you have the life and the relationship you’ve always wanted?
When you were young and dreamed of what life would be like and who you would love... what did you dream of?
Has it turned out that way?
If not, then do you know why not?
What happened?
And if you had a way to get back on that path that you feel your heart yearning for... would you take it?
Your Standards create the life you experience
What you are willing to accept is what you will attract
What are you letting into your life, and what are you keeping out of it?
Life is always throwing things at you.
People, experiences, opportunities.
In a way the universe is asking you...
“What do you want?”
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Your Standards are the signal that responds.
Anything you say “yes” to, you will get more of.
Anything you say “no” to, you will get less of.
Whether we meant to or not.
Whether it was our wounds talking.
Whether we were people-pleasing
Whether we were hoping for their potential to shine
Or we were going along because we were too scared that we wouldn’t find anything else.
The result will be the same. More or less... it all happens inside you.
“Holding a standard is the courage to say NO to everything that isn’t what you truly want, and the awareness to say YES to what is”
The #Standards course takes you on a journey of understanding, embodying and attracting your deepest desires to you.
You will start to realise that life is happening FOR you and not TO you.
You get to choose.

Who You Will Become
In order to change the conditions of our life, we have to change ourselves on the inside. Developing standards is so much more than knowing what you don’t want... it’s becoming a match for what you do.
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Certainty
Know with unshakable conviction exactly what it is you truly want
Openness
Deeper trust to receiving the life and relationships you desire
Confidence
Own the strength to say NO to everything that pulls you down
Magnetisim
Become a vibrational match to your heart’s yearning
Become a match to your dreams
Each module contains information and practices to bring you closer to your deepest desires
Buy CourseClarity
- Discover what you really want
- Preferences vs true standards
- Compromises & non-negotiables
Embodiment
- Entitlement & Effacement
- Reciprocity is the secret ingredient
- Being who you want
Boundaries
- Elegant boundaries
- The energetics of YES & NO
- Becoming permeable to a beautiful life
Alignment
- Surrendering into Trust
- Masculine & Feminine alignment
- The currency of vibration

What you receive
Guided Practices
The course contains a set of powerful meditation, embodiment and reflective exercises designed to bring you into an alignment with the relationships and the life that you yearn for
Core Lessons
Each module contains prerecorded living theory that helps your mind conceptualize and understand the process of this transformation. First we know, and then we grow.
Clarity Mapping Process
The central element of the standards course is a comprehensive survey bringing you into illumination of your relationship standards across 5 key areas. We work with this content throughout the entire course.
Live Coaching Sessions
In January we kick-start 2024 by moving through this course as a group. For eight weeks there is a coaching session each week so that this material becomes fully embodied in you, giving you the best year yet!
Pricing Options
Make 2024 your year for love
The live group container starts 22nd January 2024
& runs for 8 weeks
Get 1 month free access to the
Everything you need to both find & keep
The love of your dreams
Buy 6 months of the membership
& receive #Standards
+ a bonus 1:1 with Damien
Everything you need to find & keep the love of your dreams
Have any questions?
Intimacy Package
Fill out this form to apply to work privately with Damien Bohler to develop your Secure Intimacy.
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Testimonials
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Damien is the founder of Evolve Relating. He has been facilitating, teaching and coaching for 10+ years. His gift is in the synthesising of complex concepts into practical ways to grow. He weaves together authentic relating, attachment theory, polarity and awakening techniques into a holistic system of relational transformation.
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You're Allowed To Want What you Want
And have it!
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